Listen to how couples negotiate using a condom.
 The Dependent"I thought you were bringing a condom." | |
 The Pleasure Seeker"Condoms reduce sexual sensation and pleasure." | |
 The Pull-outer"I will just pull out before I cum. " | |
 The Averter "Birth control is your responsibility, not mine. " | |
 The Confident "We don't need a condom, I'm on the pill." | |
 The Non Starter"We’ve had sex without a condom before, why now?" | |
 The Lover "I love you, I thought you loved me too." | |
 The Trustworthy"You know that I am not sleeping around. " | |
 The Loner "But you are already using birth control. We don’t need a condom." | |
 The Gambler"Baby, just this one time. Nothing is going to happen. I promise the next time I’ll get one." | |
 The Giant"I'm too big to fit in a condom." | |
 The Guilt Tripper"Don’t you trust me?" | |
 The Jealous"Are you cheating on me?" | |
 The Denier"There’s no way you can get me to use a condom. " | |
 The Idler"But I don’t have one on me. I have to go all the way to the store to get it." | |
 The Show Stopper"Stopping to put on a condom ruins the moment. " |
